Under The Radar

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Getting Free : is the most important aspect in having a non-toxic intimate relationship. Authenticity prevents e-motional behaviors of toxicity. To be authentic, we must be willing to offer up relevant imperfections of Self as well.

Light bulb (indicating of a new idea)

Light bulb (indicating of a new idea)

Toxicity Liberated : Primary purpose of the Blog

    Understanding the actual radar. click

    • Not being the false center as before.
    • Identifying the mutual bluff when merging towards intimacy.
    • Verifying the ego's presence in Self & others.
    • E-motions Truths we trained our body's to lie about...!?
    • Relying upon vulnerabilities to guide our paths towards eventual non-toxic behaviors.
    • Sex : Not the hardist feat to entertain...

    Navigating Your Authentic Self: Beyond the Radar

    You : are the sole (soul) controller of the entire being that is physically vesseled around You and being mindful of the actual authentic center You are, will assist in the eventual liberations from having been toxic behaving and preventing toxic behaviors to ever successfully clutch at You ever again. 

    The process to this after recognizing Your true identity, being the basic blueprint to what makes others around You the same, except for the possibility of rather being likewise, aware of their own authenticity of existance, as the true center of their being human. 

    The finite makeup of the brain (meaning to have a limitation) can only withhold so much to a specific capacity, until overwhelming conditions occur, wherefore, the mind (infinite) seeks forth a solution to assist the complaint of the brain's being momentarily disturbed by such overflow of new informagion to record and store. You (We) as the authentic owner of ourselves, the true being as sole controller, calls the shots between both the finite and infinite aspects of true self. Its too bad that we don't get early educations as a prerequiset as the science of mating. {in which in my opinion would be too ardious of school work} because such science would have to imply various stages of the e-motions and such. 

    Blip upon radar device screen

    Blip upon radar device screen

    Poker cards (indicating how we play our hands at romance...)

    Poker cards (indicating how we play our hands at romance...)

    The Mutual Bluff Syndrome

    1. Upon intimate merging neither person is presenting Self 100% authentic 
    2. Major imperfections around intimacy gone undealt with affixed in a coping stage of individual having to remain alone for long periods of time, becoming more comfortable with the self for it being safe from being detected by the potential significant other as red flags. 
    3. Embrace the V : Most of us do the opposite of the thoughts intended when merging towards the possibility of intimate bonding. Ego, being the over or under exaggerating influence of the behavior during this crucial point of responding to the impulses of attraction.
    4. 🫣 Unfortunately, for the carnal thinking of the human being, that embracement is the 'V' focused of the genitals, while all the time over-exaggerating discretion in concerning the natural needs of sexual Intimacy and compatibility. 
    5. The actual embracement is the implications of the imperfections and characteristics made flawed from the over exaggerated long time span comfortably being with Self. To imply these flaws (regardless of the fear of being red-flagged) true embrace of the feeling of Vulnerabilities is the way of applying ointment upon that which would eventually fester Toxicity in the intimate relationship. 
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